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Does Venus retrograde affect you more than others?
Enter your date, time and place of birth: find out where Venus sits in your birth chart, and so which area of your life its retrogrades come to shake up.
Venus retrograde is a bit like the friend who pulls out the old photos in the middle of the party: an ex who pops back up, a purchase you regret, a couple asking itself questions. About every eighteen months, the planet of love seems to back up, and it's happening now: in 2026, she does it from October 3 to November 13. She started out in Scorpio, slipped back into Libra on October 25, and her shadow runs until December 15. Scorpio, where it all began, has a front-row seat, along with Taurus and Libra, ruled by Venus. And since 2027 is around the corner, I'll also tell you what she has in store (spoiler: not much). Ready to turn six weeks of rereading into real choices? Let me guide you 🧭
Right now
Venus retrograde in Scorpio, then Libra, October 3 to November 13, 2026
Start
October 3, in Scorpio
Signs most affected
Scorpio, Taurus, Libra
Back to direct
November 13, in Libra
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Write it in your planner (in pen, Venus hates crossed-out lines): she only goes retrograde about once every eighteen months, and in 2026, it's from October 3 to November 13. Venus retrograde in Scorpio first, then Venus retrograde in Libra from October 25: two moods in a single retrograde. And in 2027, there won't be any.
2026
2027
No retrograde in 2027: the next one starts on May 10, 2028
On October 3, Venus stopped in Scorpio, then turned around. She is in exile there: the sign of Mars and Pluto can't stand anything lukewarm, and under its gaze the planet of love loses her lightness to gain depth. Trust, exclusivity, jealousy, shared money: what was kept quiet comes back up. The period's two hard aspects fell there: the square to Mars on October 10 and the square to Pluto on the 20th, and the Sun joined her on the 23rd, at the heart of the retrograde. Since October 25, she has been backing up through Libra, her home sign: no more digging; now we rebalance, with backup from Jupiter on November 4 and from Mars on the 10th. But this phase also has a real purpose: taking stock of what you give and what you receive, by asking yourself the right questions:
Until November 13, it's time to reread rather than decide: reconnect, go over your accounts, finish what's dragging, and let the big decisions ripen. The shadow period began on August 31 and only closes on December 15, when Venus gets back to the point where she stopped in Scorpio; and until November 13, Mercury backs up with her, enough to scramble the messages a little more. My advice: write down what comes up, and save the big couple, contract or purchase decisions for after December 15.
→ See the calendar, retrograde by retrograde
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Don't worry: Venus never moves backward 😉. No planet does. Retrograde motion is a perspective effect: seen from Earth, which is moving too, Venus seems to slow down, stop, then retrace her steps for a few weeks. It's exactly what happens when you pass a car on the highway: for a few seconds, it seems to roll backward against the landscape. Yet it's moving forward.
This time, Venus is the one overtaking us, on the inside lane. Closer to the Sun, she completes her lap in about 225 days. The phenomenon happens when she passes between the Earth and the Sun, at her closest to us: this time, on October 23, 2026. In astrology, this passage is read as a reset, a bit like a new moon, but for love and value.
And you can see it with the naked eye! Venus never shows up in the middle of the night: sometimes in the evening, sometimes in the morning. The ancients believed in two stars: the evening star and the morning light-bringer; we still call her “the evening star.” The switch from one to the other happens precisely during the retrograde: the 2026 one turns her from evening star into morning star. Here are the five stages of a retrograde, as we live them:
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Shadow period
The files to reread take shape
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Retrograde station
She stops, doubt sets in
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Retrograde
Six weeks of rereading the heart
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Direct station
She moves on, still very slowly
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Out of the shadow
The decisions you make hold
In astrology, Venus rules love, pleasure, beauty, taste, money and self-esteem. When she goes retrograde, relationships, desires, budget and appearance leave “move forward” mode and enter “check” mode. Hence her reputation, not undeserved but often misunderstood: no disasters happen, we simply see what we had chosen not to look at. In eight years, she goes retrograde five times, and her five stopping points draw an almost perfect pentagram in the sky, the rose of Venus. For the dates of the other planets, see my calendar of retrograde planets.
Venus is the planet that spends the least time retrograde: about once every eighteen months, for forty to forty-three days, while Mercury does it three to four times a year. Her retrograde is rare, and that's precisely why it leaves a mark. And let's be honest, no scientific study has ever proven that exes come back more often during these periods (they don't need an excuse). In astrology, it's a rereading, not a sentence. It even has its lovely sides: getting back in touch, going over your accounts, finishing what's been dragging.
About 7% of people are born with Venus retrograde, and it shows. Unlike the transit, this placement colors the whole love life: an offbeat relationship with seduction, compliments that make you uneasy, and a little more time than others to figure out what you like. Neither a handicap nor a curse: it's a different tempo, and often a greater authenticity. A little payback along the way: Venus retrograde periods tend to suit them; the sky finally works their way 😉
A retrograde can't be boiled down to its two end points: it has a before, a heart and an after. Here are the dates to remember, plus the sign changes as a bonus:
08/31 Venus enters the shadow period: the files to reread take shape
10/03 Venus turns retrograde, in Scorpio
10/23 Venus passes between the Earth and the Sun: the heart of the retrograde
10/25 Venus slips back into Libra: intensity gives way to diplomacy
11/13 Venus goes direct again, in Libra
12/04 Venus returns to Scorpio, moving forward
12/15 Out of the shadow: the decisions you make hold
Purple dot: the start and end of the retrograde.
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It's the signature of the year, and I find it very telling: Venus's only retrograde of 2026 overlaps with Mercury's. From October 24 to November 13, the two planets back up together, and both go direct on November 13. What we feel and what we say get revised at the same time: it's the year's most fertile window for emotional misunderstandings… and, used well, for the clarifications that never happened.
The great lesson of 2026 💞
The year invites you to check that what you hold on to still deserves your attachment.
A real rereading of the heart, one that takes honesty, patience and a little gentleness toward yourself.
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Venus never backs up alone. The period's two hard aspects fall in its first phase, in Scorpio; the two harmonious ones, in the second, in Libra. In between, on October 23, the Sun joins her: the heart of the cycle, and paradoxically its clearest moment:
♂ Mars
in Leo, square Venus on 10/10, sextile on 11/10 and 12/12
→ desire and attachment clash, then get back in tune
♇ Pluto
in Aquarius, square Venus on 09/15, 10/20 and 12/09
→ jealousy, control, scores to settle
♃ Jupiter
in Leo, sextile Venus on 11/04 and 11/28
→ a first real break in the clouds
☿ Mercury
conjunct Venus on 10/06, retrograde from 10/24 to 11/13
→ what we feel and what we say, reviewed together
With a retrograde that moves from Scorpio to Libra, the fall puts the spotlight on what we truly owe each other: trust, sharing, fairness. The first two weeks could bring up questions of shared money and loyalty; the second half, bring back a taste for compromise. Nothing is set in stone: it's a climate, not a verdict. Everyone can read in it what concerns them.
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For each sign, I give you the house where Venus began backing up in your chart, the one of Scorpio, where she stopped on October 3; since October 25, she has been backing up through the previous house, the one of Libra, which takes over until November 13. A little tip while we're at it: also read the text for your rising sign, it's often even more telling than your Sun sign. Don't know it? Calculate your rising sign for free: it takes two minutes! The ⭐ marks the signs most concerned: Taurus and Libra, ruled by Venus, and Scorpio, where the retrograde began.
You go from zero to sixty in a second: keeping your cool isn't your specialty.
October - November 2026 · House 8
Shared money and intimacy
Your challenge: Renegotiating nothing in the heat of the moment
Opportunity: Finally reviewing the joint account or the loan
Venus is your planet: you feel her retreat more than others, and you hate having your routines shaken up.
October - November 2026 · House 7
Couple and partnerships
Your challenge: Watching your habits rather than judging the other
Opportunity: Rethinking what you expect from your relationship
Curious about everything, you easily mistake fatigue for falling out of love.
October - November 2026 · House 6
Daily life and health
Your challenge: Not mistaking fatigue for falling out of love
Opportunity: Clearing two evenings a week
You never experience emotions from a distance: this retreat hits you right in the heart.
October - November 2026 · House 5
Love, pleasure and creativity
Your challenge: Writing before speaking
Opportunity: Making peace with an old story
You like things to be clear and radiant: now you're invited to dig into what isn't.
October - November 2026 · House 4
Home and family
Your challenge: Signing nothing on impulse for the home
Opportunity: Reopening the conversation with a parent
You tend to measure your worth by what you produce: your words deserve the same high standards.
October - November 2026 · House 3
Close exchanges
Your challenge: Rereading your messages before sending them
Opportunity: Reopening a conversation left hanging
Venus rules you: she has been backing up through your sign since October 25.
October - November 2026 · House 2
Money and self-esteem
Your challenge: Waiting until December 15 for the makeover
Opportunity: Getting your finances back on track
With you, nothing stays on the surface: the retrograde began in your sign.
October - November 2026 · House 1
Yourself and your image
Your challenge: Clarity yes, score-settling no
Opportunity: Rethinking what you expect from a relationship
Eternal optimist on the move, you're kindly asked to stop.
October - November 2026 · House 12
Inner life and the unsaid
Your challenge: Not filling the void with restlessness
Opportunity: Listening to a feeling you've kept to yourself
You build your life for the long haul: the question is who you devote your efforts to.
October - November 2026 · House 11
Friends and networks
Your challenge: Not sorting your alliances in a hurry
Opportunity: Redefining a collaboration that's running out of steam
Your natural playground is ideas: the retrograde brings you back to your image first.
October - November 2026 · House 10
Career and public image
Your challenge: Not mistaking recognition for power
Opportunity: Rethinking what success means to you
You have a real talent for idealizing: Venus, exalted in your sign, speaks loudly to you.
October - November 2026 · House 9
Travel and beliefs
Your challenge: Checking the facts before the story
Opportunity: Clarifying a long-distance relationship
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The list of don'ts that goes around at every retrograde is largely exaggerated. The golden rule fits in one sentence: Venus retrograde reopens the files, she doesn't fix them for you. Here's what really holds up:
✓ What you can do
Go over your accounts, reconnect, finish what's dragging
✗ What to avoid
Making it official fast, a total makeover, splurging
Some moves really are better off waiting for the return to direct, or even the end of the shadow:
1. Making a brand-new relationship official
Not because it would be cursed, but because your judgment about what you like is under full review. What attracts you during the retrograde won't necessarily attract you two months later.
2. Changing your look for good
Radical haircut, tattoo, cosmetic surgery: Venus rules taste, and yours is unstable. Anything that grows back is allowed, anything that doesn't grow back waits.
3. Splurging on a big treat
Jewelry, a work of art, a car picked on a crush: better to wait. Useful purchases, on the other hand, are no problem (the broken washing machine can be replaced).
4. Signing a partnership on impulse
Especially on the days when the period's hard aspects shake up the heart and the wallet.
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Venus won't go retrograde a single time in 2027: her cycle brings her back about every eighteen months, so one year out of two has none. The next one will run from May 10 to June 22, 2028, in Gemini, the sign of words and curiosity. In other words, the retrograde you're going through right now is the only one of its kind for a long while: what gets settled now stays settled for a long time; what gets dodged will come back, but late.
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Venus never goes retrograde twice in a row in the same sign, and depending on the one she backs up through, the question raised is not the same at all. As a guide, for this retrograde as for the next ones:
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Frequently Asked Questions About Venus Retrograde 2026
Forty-one days: she backs up from October 3 to November 13, 2026, in Scorpio and then in Libra since October 25. With its shadow periods, the cycle is much longer: it began on August 31 and only closes on December 15, when Venus gets back to the point where she stopped in Scorpio. That's the date when the decisions you make really hold.
No, don't worry! Nobody has ever broken up because of Venus, or blown their budget because a planet seemed to back up. In astrology, it's a period of rereading, not a sentence. And scientifically, no effect has ever been demonstrated: treat it like a weather forecast, not a threat.
Tradition advises against it for a brand-new union, because the period revises your emotional judgment rather than steadying it. Making a long, well-tested relationship official is no problem. And a wedding planned long in advance doesn't get moved for a planet: astrology sheds light on a choice, it doesn't take it away from you.
The pace and the subject! Venus goes retrograde once every eighteen months, for about six weeks, and affects love, money, taste and self-esteem. Mercury does it three to four times a year, for three weeks, and affects words, contracts and trips. In 2026, the two overlap from October 24 to November 13. All the dates are in my calendar of retrograde planets.
Scorpio, where the retrograde began on October 3, then Taurus and Libra, both ruled by Venus. Libra has been hosting her again since October 25, and Venus will move forward there again on November 13.
No, not once. Her cycle brings her back about every eighteen months, so one year out of two has none. The next retrograde will run from May 10 to June 22, 2028, in Gemini. The 2026 dates are in the calendar above.
As you can see, Venus retrograde isn't a cosmic punishment, it's a rereading. This fall, starting out in Scorpio, she stirs things up first, then begins to repair in Libra, until she moves forward again on November 13. Above all, remember December 15, the end of the shadow, the real window for big decisions. Until then, reread rather than decide: go over your accounts, reconnect, and let what needs to ripen ripen. Then nothing until May 10, 2028. For the other planets, everything is in my calendar of retrograde planets. And to find out where Venus sits in your chart, work out your birth chart. So, what do you truly care about? 💞
Editor's note
Your Natal Venus Says More Than the Transit
A Venus transit doesn't land the same way on everyone: it all depends on where your natal Venus sits and the aspects she receives. She is the one who describes how you love, what you expect from a relationship and what you call “valuable.” One of our astrologers can read your chart with you.
Share this article with the person who texted you “we need to talk” during the retrograde: you might both understand why it came up now.
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