1. Prepare a sacred, protected space 🧭
First, cleanse the room and yourself. Air it out, tidy up, switch off the screens. Dissolve the pinch of salt in a little water and pass your hands through the mixture, or symbolically sprinkle the corners of the room. Salt draws an energetic boundary: inside the circle, you are safe.
Light your candle and take three deep breaths. Say inwardly: "This space is mine. Nothing enters it without my consent." You have just opened the ritual.
2. Name precisely the tie you want to cut ✍️
You do not cut "everything negative" in a heap: you take aim. Close your eyes and let the face, the situation, or the emotion you want to be free of rise up. A person, a dependency, a resentment, an old version of yourself: be honest, no one is reading over your shoulder.
Put it into one simple sentence, in the present tense: "I cut the tie that binds me to… and that takes my energy." Naming it is already taking your power back.
3. Write it down and give the cord a form 🪢
Write on the paper everything this tie has taken from you: your sleep, your confidence, years of your life, your joy. Empty yourself with no filter. Then, at the bottom, write what you want to reclaim: "I take back my energy, my peace, my freedom."
Now pick up your ribbon (or string) and hold one end, imagining that the other end is held by that person or situation. This thread is the cord. You will sever it in a moment.
4. Visualize the tie under the Full Moon 🌕
Stand facing the Moon (or its light through the window). Picture the cord running from your belly or your heart over to the other person. Notice its color, its thickness: is it sticky, taut, painful? Do not judge, just observe.
Bathe that cord in silver moonlight. Feel how the Buck Moon, carried by Pluto, softens the thread and makes it ready to give way. Nothing is being torn from you: you are the one deciding.
5. The act of release: cut ✂️
Here is the heart of the ritual. On the exhale, cut the ribbon in one decisive motion (or, with scissors in the empty air, sever the cord you have visualized). Say out loud: "I set you free and I set myself free. This tie has no more power over me."
Many people feel a genuine physical relief here, sometimes a few tears: that is the energy rebalancing itself. Let the emotion pass without holding it back: it is part of the cut.
6. Burn it, dissolve it, give it back to the Moon 🔥
Burn the paper in the candle flame (over a heatproof dish, and please be careful with fire), or tear it into tiny pieces if you prefer. The paper that disappears carries away what is no longer yours.
As for the two cut ends of ribbon: throw them away separately, outside your home if you can. What the Moon has severed should not go back to sleep in your drawers.
7. Close with gratitude and protection 🛡️
Never leave a ritual open. Give thanks: to the Moon, to Pluto, to your guides, and above all to yourself, for the courage to cut. Then wrap yourself in a bubble of golden light and affirm: "I am whole, I am protected, I am free."
Blow out the candle (or let it burn down safely). Drink a glass of water: we always re-anchor in the body after energy work. It is done. You have cut the cord.
After the ritual: protecting your new space 🌿
Cutting a tie opens up room; the trick is not to let that emptiness fill back up with just anything. In the days that follow, give yourself gentleness: sleep, walk, stay hydrated. If a sense of loss or nostalgia rises, that is normal: your brain is craving its old habit, not necessarily the person.
To reinforce the work, look at which astrological house Aquarius rules in your birth chart, and which one holds your natal Moon sign: that is where this Buck Moon lands most personally, and where your fresh space is opening. Block the number, put the photos away, change your daily routines: the energetic gesture has to be matched by a concrete one.
Do you really have to wait for the Buck Moon to cut a tie? 🌗
Honestly? The best time to cut a toxic tie is the day you feel ready. But astrology offers windows that give you a boost, and the one on July 29, 2026 is especially powerful for this exact work, thanks to the Moon–Pluto conjunction in Aquarius.
If you miss that night, do not panic: every Full Moon favors letting go, just like every New Moon favors fresh starts and setting intentions. Keep the 2026 lunar calendar close so you can spot the next window, and check in with your daily horoscope to time your move. And to make the most of the Moon's energy, here are the rituals to practice on a Full Moon evening.
Susan's note: you don't cut out of anger, you cut out of self-love 💌
After twenty years of walking people through these passages, I have noticed one thing: the cuts that hold are not the most furious ones, they are the most peaceful. As long as you sever while shouting "I hate you," the tie still holds, fed by the anger. The day you whisper "I wish you the best, but far from me," the thread falls away on its own. (You can read more about my approach on my presentation page.)
So give yourself this ritual not against someone, but for you. For the space you are about to reclaim, the nights you are going to get back, the person you become once you are free of the other's weight. The Buck Moon does not ask you to be at war: it invites you to make room. 🤍
❓ Buck Moon 2026: your questions answered
When is the Buck Moon 2026?
The Buck Moon reaches its peak on Wednesday, July 29, 2026, at 10:36 a.m. EDT (14:36 UTC). Because the exact peak falls during the day, you see it fully lit as night falls that evening. The ritual is best practiced that night or on the two following nights.
Why is it called the Buck Moon?
This traditional name comes from the fact that in July, the antlers of male deer regrow after falling off. Symbolically, it is a Moon of renewal: what you lose or cut grows back stronger. It is also nicknamed the Thunder Moon or the Raspberry Moon, and no, it is not a supermoon.
When is the best time to cut a toxic tie?
The best time is still the moment you feel inwardly ready. That said, the Buck Moon 2026, conjunct Pluto in Aquarius, offers an ideal energy of severance and transformation for this kind of release ritual.
Can you cut a tie with someone you still love?
Yes. Cutting the cord does not mean you stop loving, or that you necessarily cut off contact: it means you stop the energy leak that exhausts you. You can absolutely keep tenderness for someone while refusing to let that tie keep draining you.
Is this ritual dangerous or risky?
No. It is a ritual of intention and visualization, gentle and kind. The only real precaution is practical: be careful with the candle flame. If deep suffering or a genuine hold persists, a ritual is no substitute for the support of a professional or a trusted practitioner.
One last thing, and it matters: astrology is not here to decide for you, nor to lock you into some fate. The Buck Moon lights the way and gives you momentum, but it is always your own free will that cuts the thread. The stars open the door; you are the one who chooses to walk through it, at your own pace, gently.
Editor's note: make room for what feels goodYou do not need a spectacular reason to cut a tie: "it drains me" is enough. This week, choose ONE cord to sever, the heaviest one, and give yourself this Buck Moon ritual. One thread at a time, you grow light again. 🌕
Hesitating to cut, or not sure whether this tie is truly toxic? Sometimes an outside perspective reveals what we cannot bear to see alone.
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