Who Is The Most Difficult Zodiac Sign To Get Along With?

Last updated by Susan Taylor

Compatibility scores in love and friendship often mean there are people with instantly hit it off with and others that we can't stand to be around. That's right, there are some zodiac signs in particular that can be unbearable simply because of their tough personalities. Some are too proud and others are too demanding or even rude. Can you guess which personalities instantly rub people up the wrong way? Trust us, dealing with these folks frequently, in a date or friendship setting requires the patience of a saint, and then some more! Here is a ranking of the top 5!

Who Is The Most Difficult Zodiac Sign To Get Along With?

We each have our own unique features, both good and bad. While everyone has their own flaws, these 5 signs are those with the traits which can be the most unbearable and hard to deal with. This probably explains why the personalities listed have a harder time making friends and finding love than most, although all is not lost. Once we understand our zodiac sign weaknesses, we can quickly turn them into strengths.

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The 5 most difficult zodiac signs to be around are...

While their unique personality traits give these people the edge in other aspects of life, such as work, it can also make these signs insufferable to be around after a while. 

1. Virgo is the most difficult zodiac sign to date, to impress, and to love...

With their practical and analytic approach to everything they do, Virgos are undoubtedly a lot to deal with. Their attention to the smallest details means that they can find 100 things wrong with you in an instant, but you can definitely feel the judgement as it happens. Their overly critical nature and reluctance to express their feelings can make them very hard to get along with.

2. Aquarius isn't easy to put up with

While they may be good listeners, donโ€™t expect too much back from an Aquarius. Their tendency to run from any emotional expression can be extremely frustrating, especially if youโ€™ve just opened up with them. They still expect you to intuitively understand their needs, even though they havenโ€™t told you anything. And, donโ€™t be shocked if they just up and leave โ€” Aquarius have a deep need to get away and be alone from time to time, especially if they get bored with you.

3. Aries can be too intense

Even though an Aries might be the most fun on a night out, theyโ€™re also very impulsive and quick to judge. They often say things without considering context and act without thinking through the implications. Also, their eagerness to act can lead to many promises, but a lack of follow-through means theyโ€™re rarely fulfilled.    

4. Leo is too self-centered

Although it seems like everyone loves them, Leos can be some of the most difficult people to get along with. Leos require constant attention and hate feeling undervalued, even if they donโ€™t directly say it. Being one of the proudest zodiac signs means that they expect to be treated like a king or queen, without having to remind people of it. Even worse, if you made a bad first impression on them, donโ€™t expect them to change their mind โ€” their opinion of you wonโ€™t change.

5. Gemini is one of the most difficult zodiacs to understand

In spite of their sociability, Geminis can be a nightmare to deal with after a while. Their ability to adapt to new people and situations helps them make friends, but their inconsistency in maintaining the same personality makes them difficult people to hang out with for a prolonged period. In addition to this, their enthusiasm to make new friends and discover the world means that they tend to neglect those close to them.

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Who is the most complicated female zodiac sign?

Among the most complex female zodiac signs, we find Scorpio in first place. Scorpio is a water sign and has a habit of rushing head first into decisions without consulting the person or people they live with. This sign also has a tendency to be stubborn, a bit angry, and even rude. And as if that wasn't enough, they're full of energy... Result: when some people just want to rest at home, Scorpio prefers to constantly be on the move, making them fairly difficult to deal with.

The second-hardest female zodiac to read is Capricorn, but for very different reasons. These natives like things clear, classic, sober, and organized, but to the point of becoming too much. As soon as they get off the beaten track, they panic. These females have a hard time dealing with spontaneity and often sulk when they have to change their plans at the last minute.

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Who are the most difficult zodiac signs to understand?

Scorpio, Aquarius, and Leo are the toughest personalities to understand. As a Water sign, Scorpio stings with their words, and hurts people vehemently, even if they blame themselves afterward. In addition, it is a very passionate sign and has a taste for power. Here, we can also cite Aquarius because this sign tends to be indifferent, and distant, and has a sharp and cold side. Aquarius, ruled by Uranus, the planet of rebellion, and Saturn, the planet linked to rigor, have great principles but do not apply them to themselves. Another sign recognized as being difficult to understand is Leo. Governed by the Sun, Leo is an "authoritarian" being. These natives want to control and direct everything. This analysis is also valid for people having one of these three signs as ascendant.

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What zodiac signs get along and which donโ€™t get along?

Friendship compatibility between astrological signs depends on many factors, including the elements and personality traits specific to each sign. Here's a general list of signs that are generally compatible in friendship, as well as those that may encounter challenges in their relationships:

These zodiac signs get on best:

  • Aries: Leo, Sagittarius, Gemini, Aquarius
  • Taurus: Virgo, Capricorn, Cancer, Pisces
  • Gemini: Libra, Aquarius, Leo, Aries
  • Cancer: Scorpio, Pisces, Virgo, Taurus
  • Leo: Aries, Sagittarius, Libra, Gemini
  • Virgo: Taurus, Capricorn, Cancer, Scorpio
  • Libra: Gemini, Leo, Aquarius, Sagittarius
  • Scorpio: Cancer, Pisces, Capricorn, Virgo
  • Sagittarius: Aries, Leo, Aquarius, Libra
  • Capricorn: Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, Pisces
  • Aquarius: Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius, Aries
  • Pisces: Cancer, Scorpio, Taurus, Capricorn

And, these zodiac signs have a harder time getting on:

  • Aries: Cancer, Capricorn, Libra
  • Taurus: Leo, Aquarius, Scorpio
  • Gemini: Virgo, Pisces, Sagittarius
  • Cancer: Aries, Libra, Aquarius
  • Leo: Taurus, Scorpio, Capricorn
  • Virgo: Gemini, Sagittarius, Pisces
  • Libra: Cancer, Capricorn, Taurus
  • Scorpio: Aries, Gemini, Leo
  • Sagittarius: Virgo, Pisces, Scorpio
  • Capricorn: Aries, Libra, Gemini
  • Aquarius: Taurus, Scorpio, Virgo
  • Pisces: Gemini, Sagittarius, Virgo

It's important to note that compatibility in friendship is not limited to sun signs alone, but can also be influenced by the positions of other planets in the natal chart. Friendships can thrive or face challenges depending on each person's personality and individual dynamics. So it's essential to consider these factors holistically and cultivate relationships based on openness, respect and mutual understanding.

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โœจ Can difficult zodiac signs change?

Absolutely! Astrology is not a fixed destinyโ€”itโ€™s a guide for self-awareness and improvement. By knowing which traits make you difficult for others, you can make mindful efforts to evolve. For example, Virgos can practice more mindfulness and tolerance, while Aries can work on emotional control. Understanding your full birth chart (Sun, Moon, Rising, Venus, and Mars signs) gives a more complex picture of your behavior, especially in social and romantic dynamics. Itโ€™s not just about being a โ€œbadโ€ or โ€œdifficultโ€ sign โ€” itโ€™s about growth, compassion, and balance.

>>> Read; which zodiac signs are likely to take back an ex?

Susan Taylorโ€™s insights: The Universe speaks to us

Not everyone can hit it off like a house on fire, therefore not everyone is compatible, however, knowing who you match well with is important. If you have questions about your future, if you need answers, don't hesitate to make an appointment with one of our psychics. They will enlighten you about your future with great attention.

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