The Lover: Strength, Positivity And Optimism

Last updated by Amy Thomas

You’ve been dealt ‘The Lover’, but what can that possibly say about your future? As a symbol of choice, youthfulness, and desire, this card can have positive or negative effects, which all depend on how it is selected from the deck. It represents harmony and reciprocal feelings. Discover the meaning of this card and how it can impact your life and path. What does it mean for you?

This card is not just about love. It represents strong alliances and positive balances between the body and mind. This harmony and reciprocity can manifest itself in all areas of life: friendship, work, entrepreneurship or any situation in which two living forces join forces to pursue the same goal. 

For the consultant, it may involve finding a new job, for example. It also symbolizes the notion of choice. The consultant could be faced with a difficult decision to make. This choice will have a very important impact in their life. The path that seems the easiest today is not necessarily the most positive in the long run.

The Lover's positive symbolism: 

The Lover is a young man torn between two women who must come to a decision. It symbolizes emotion and the relationship between important decisions and progress. What’s more, it’s a card that can represent fickleness- particularly in the way you’re not able to make up your mind in love. Professionally, it can offer up a whole load of opportunities in the hope of forcing you to come to a crucial decision.

The Lover's negative symbolism: 

It's the very definition of uncertainty and doubt. Badly oriented, this card has the power to make you freeze out of indecision. Prepare for times of uncertainty, and be measured in your approach- as the card will do its best to ensure you make a foolish choice.

Its influence on your love life:

Internal conflict, Hesitation, Soul-searching

Its effect on your career path:

Procrastination, Fickleness, Dependency

Its effect on your finances:

Management problems, Crisis, Expenses

Article presented by Amy Thomas

Tarot expert - I’ve been passionate about Tarot ever since I was a teenager and my love for Tarot hasn’t ever gone away. Reading people’s cards and revealing what lies ahead for them is an absolute joy for me.

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