Are You And Your Partner Stuck In A Sex Rut? Here 5 Steps To Get Out Of ItIt's often harder than we think to get out of a sexual rut, especially if you are in a long relationship, you may find that the spark has started to dwindle and that you are too busy with your daily life to make time for your partner. If this is the case, here are 5 pieces of advice to reignite your sexual flame and get you out of the rut, without having to trying ambitious new positions.
Daily life can at times be a real passion killer, so the simplest way to get your partner in the mood is to surprise them, it’s sometimes just a question of spending some alone time together and then perhaps one thing will lead to another.
Here are our 5 steps to get out of a sexual rut
1- Take advantage of the weekend
Your jobs and weekly schedules may mean you rarely get to spend any time at all with each other, so make sure your weekends revolve around your partner. Take advantage of morning lay in’s and free afternoons, why not book a mini-break and rent a hotel room for the weekend, where you can act out your wildest fantasies without disturbing the neighbors. Let your imagination run wild!
2- Do something different together
Doing something different will help you reignite the flame and boost your complicity. Taking part in new activities may show you another side of your partner and remind you why you fell for them in the first place. Physical activities, high in adrenaline are great ways to lead up to more romantic and sensual events.
3- Take care of yourself
This idea may seem contradictory, however it is a proven fact that the more you take care of yourself, the better you feel, meaning you will feel more confident and will want to get your partner’s pulse racing in the bedroom! Don’t hold back, go all out, put on some sexy lingerie, some lipstick and perfume and your partner will be putty in your hands.
4- Get away
If you and your partner are joined at the hip you may at times suffocate each other, so be sure to take time for yourself. Being apart makes the heart grow fonder and a little time apart will help freshen up your relationship. When you spend time apart, don’t totally neglect your partner, let them know you are thinking about them by sending them some naughty sexts, don’t be shy about heating things up!
5- Be daring
Sexual routines are set in place due to a lack of boldness, neither partner dares to take the lead and force the other one to change their routine, to change things up, be a daring, try new positions and new places, and tell your partner all about your wildest fantasies. Your partner will be grateful in the long term.