Broken Trust : 13 Clear Cut Signs You No Longer Trust Your PartnerWhen trust issues creep into your relationship, they can put a strain on things with your partner. They say that trust is the key to a strong and successful relationship, but with only less than half of women who say they fully trust their man, trust issues seem to be invading our romantic lives. Do you totally trust your partner, or is the trust broken in your relationship?
Giving someone your total trust can be difficult especially if seeds of doubt have already been planted. Trust issues in relationships can be hard to deal with and can even lead you to ask yourself can you be with someone you don't trust?
Do you trust your partner?
Trust is really hard to rebuild when it has been broken, but here are the five top tips to restablishing trust in your relationship.
- Be reliable.
- Stick to your words.
- Be honest.
- Share your feelings with your partner.
- Address issues quickly and openly.
You catch yourself snooping
Many of us have done it, but snooping through your partner’s text messages and social media accounts is one of the first and most blatantly obvious signs that the trust in your relationship isn’t what it used to be.
You feel uncomfortable
You don’t know why exactly, but you just feel a little uneasy and on edge when you are around your man and your anxiety gets way worse every time he goes out with his friends.
You have trouble believing things
Your man always seems to have an elaborate tale and excuse for everything. His storytelling tendencies are become more and more embellished overtime and would make any established writer jealous!
You feel anxious
Whenever he is out of your sight and doing things without you, you can’t control it but for some reason you feel awash with worry and anxiety. Questions about what he’s doing and where he is swill constantly around your mind.
You’ve heard rumors and you believe them
Rumors always seem to follow your partner around like a bad smell and you can’t forget about them, no matter how hard you try. Putting negative information to the back of your mind isn’t any easy feat.
You can’t shake the idea
Visions of your man cheating on you and up to no good play on your mind and torture you constantly. His past never seems to stay in the past and you don’t trust him because of it.
Your partner is detached and you want answers
Although your partner is physically present, mentally he is elsewhere and never wants to let you in. His secretive behavior gets your subconscious asking questions.
Your partner has changed and you can’t explain why
Everything you once loved about your partner seems to have changed radically overtime. His once carefree attitude has been replaced with a closed off and secretive one and you can’t help think he’s hiding something BIG.
Secretive phone calls
If your SO’s phone habits are little off and he has separation issues with his cell, then there is definitely something up and you are right to be cautious. Secret late night calls and texts aren’t normal in a stable relationship.
If your man has suddenly developed a social life Paris Hilton would be jealous of and every time he goes out you are constantly worrying and clock watching, then you have trust issues.
You’ve become a detective
Your man’s suspicious behavior means you have become a private investigator in your own right. Him working late every Friday evening and regularly missing dinner plans never goes unnoticed with you. Scrolling through his social media isn’t unusual for you either.
Something feels off
Deep down you know something is off in your relationship and even if you don’t want to admit it, you know that the uneasiness stems from your lack of trust in your partner.