Newsflash Ladies, You Could Be Intimidating Men If …Ladies, if you are wondering why you are single and can never seem to attract the man of your dreams, perhaps it’s because he finds you too intimidating. The idea of the so-called fairer sex intimidating guys seems a little ironic, but it’s totally true! A guy may be really attracted to you but be scared to approach you. Is this the case for you?
Yes ladies, the truth is men can be intimidated by us, and it may be the reason you can’t seem to find ‘the one’.
Do guys find you intimidating?
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You constantly talk about your achievements
Ladies, come closer we have a secret to tell you! Pssst! Talking about your degree from that esteemed college you went to and all the amazing things you have achieved in your life can be super intimidating to people who have accomplished less than you.
You act cold
A smile is one of the most powerful weapons in the dating game, so keep that in mind, ladies. If you look like you’re having the worst time ever, guys won’t have the confidence to approach you and try to get to know you. Let your warm and beautiful smile melt the sexy ice queen inside of you.
You don’t laugh at his jokes
Guys love making people laugh and goofing around, so if a guy doesn’t see you in fits of stomach crippling laughter every time he cracks a joke, then you are definitely intimidating him and preventing things from going any further between you.
You are too confident
Being confident is a great asset to have, but in reality, guys often have trouble discerning being self-confident from being arrogant. Women who are too confident and secure in themselves can be intimidating to men.
You have everything together
Someone who has direction, goals, drive and who knows exactly want they want for their future and out of life can make men who aren’t in the same situation feel a little inadequate.
Your body language is standoffish
Body language plays such an important role in our relationships and is a determining factor in whether or not we are approachable. Let’s face it; no one wants to be rejected, so if you are standoffish, men won’t even dare approach you.
You are constantly with your girlfriends
A guy may find you really attractive and want to get to know you a little better, but if you are always with your girlfriends, it’s likely that he’ll never have the courage to approach you and let you know how he feels.
You are super pretty
Being beautiful can sometime believe it or not be a drawback when it comes to relationships. Men like women don’t like to put their feelings out there and be rejected afterwards, if they consider you to be out of their league, it’s unlikely they will act on their feelings.
You are too domineering
Controlling and domineering character traits aren’t attractive to anyone and no guy wants to be involved in a constant powerful struggle. Overbearing traits make woman unapproachable and scary to men.
You are a perfectionist
Having such high standards means that some men are intimidated by the thought of disappointing you and not being able to give you everything you need and desire.
You are really knowledgeable
A woman who can talk about politics, nuclear science and can explain the offside rule is super intimidating to a lot of guys out there.
You have had more long-term relationships
Guys through no fault of their own often focus on numbers. The number of ex-partners and lovers can get in their heads and intimidate them.
You have an amazing career
The sad truth is ladies, if you earn significantly more than a man he may be intimidated by you and your success.
You like to take charge
We’re not saying that all men love to wear the pants in a relationship, but they like to be equal partners and have their opinion listened to and respected. Ladies with very headstrong personalities are seen as intimidating by lots of guys out there.
You can hold your own
Holding your own in a conversation and showing off how smart and well-rounded you are can be seen as intimidating and threatening to guys who just can’t compete.
You always have an opinion
Having an opinion and a valid one at that on every topic there is to discuss is something that men can find super intimidating to the point that they need to compete.