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15 Obvious Signs Your Man Is A Player And Has Commitment Issues

You may think that you've met a super sweet guy who you'll spend the rest of your life with. But is he actually as adorable as you think? If you can't make him commit to taking things seriously, he could be a player. There are some clear warning signs to look out for even in the early days that guys are players and will never want take things to the next level.

Relationships should progress naturally, no matter how slow or fast that is. But, we all want to know whether our partners are in it for the long-haul, right? Here are the major signs that your man isn't up for taking things to the next level...

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Love is complicated and so is figuring out whether your man is a player or serious about looking to the future. Check out 15 signs your man doesn’t see the next chapter for your love story. 

No talk of the future

Wanting to live in the present and just ‘see how things go’ is a surefire sign your man doesn’t want to commit to you. Talking about kids and dogs after only a few weeks is a little too quick but, looking to the future after a few months is the normal progression for a solid relationship.

Late night calls

If the only time your man calls you is late at night, then we hate to break it to you, but he just isn’t serious about taking things any further with you. If a man sees a future with you, he will make an effort to send you cute messages throughout the day.

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If your relationship is based on sex, then you can be sure your man doesn’t want to commit. Although sex is an important part in most relationships, being emotionally intimate and supportive is too. Solid relationships can’t just be based on intimacy.

No dates

If date night doesn’t even exist in your relationship and you only rarely spend time together outside of the bedroom, then your partner doesn’t see himself settling down with you.

Shady phone habits

Hiding his phone and being really on edge whenever you are in 100 meters of it is not only a sign your man doesn’t want to commit to you, but also that he is dating other people!

Closed book

If you don’t really know much about your man and meeting his friends and family seems like a distant dream, then he really isn’t serious about making your relationship work.

Evasive answers

When you ask your man what he sees for your relationship in the future and his responses are seriously evasive, this should set alarm bells ringing that he isn’t looking for commitment.

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F for effort

Relationships should never be one-sided and for a relationship to work out, both partners need to make some serious effort. If your man never makes an effort to see you or make you smile, then he isn’t planning on sticking around for too long.

Everything is lighthearted

If you never seem to talk about serious and deep issues with your man, then trust on us this, he isn’t with you for the long haul. Being emotionally connected is one of the keys to a healthy and loving partnership.

He doesn’t want marriage

If your man categorically rules out the thought of walking down the aisle with you, this is a surefire sign that he doesn’t plan on spending the rest of his life with you.

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He just wants to have ‘fun’

When you ask him what he wants and how he would label your relationship, if he answers that he doesn’t want anything too serious and only wants to have fun, then your relationship isn’t going to work in the long run.

He has never been in love

When it comes to your man’s dating history, he only has very few (if any) ex partners and has never been in love. If this sounds familiar, then alarm bells should be ringing.

He hates talking ‘feelings’

Yes, men and women are wired differently when it comes to talking about their feelings, but if your man never lets you emotionally tune in to his feelings and shuts you out, you are not his soulmate.

Subject changer

If whenever you try to talk about feelings and love, your man always tries to change the subject and deflect your questions, then he doesn’t want to commit to you.

Superficial compliments

Every woman loves being complimented on her beauty, but if your man only compliments you on your figure and not your personal qualities, then he doesn’t see a future for you.

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