10 Red Flags In A New Relationship You Should NEVER IgnoreWhen you just get into a new relationship, you can easily be blinded by all the excitement that you miss some obvious red flags. Does your partner constantly make you feel guilty? Are they secretive about their past? You might not realize it, but these are all traits of a toxic relationship. Are there any red flags in your new relationship?
You may think everything is amazing, but have you really stopped and looked at your new partner’s behavior? Do they treat you right, or are they manipulative? Are they open about their past? Are they rushing things? Well, it could be time to get out now before things turn sour…
Red flags to look out for in your relationship!
We reveal the red flags everyone needs to look out for in a new relationship. Here’s what to look out for, and a word of advice, if any of these crop up you need to get out fast!
Does your partner often use ultimatums to get their way? Do they make you feel bad about things you shouldn’t? Do they guilt-trip you? This is SO not healthy!
Lack of communication
It may be early days, but it’s still important to be able to talk to each other openly about your feelings and problems. If your new partner is emotionally closed or gives you the ‘silent treatment’, it could be time to reassess your relationship.
They don’t make an effort with your family and friends
Your friends and family are what make you who you are, so if your new partner doesn’t want to get to know them, are they really interested in you?
You haven’t met his friends
This is something that so many people overlook as a red flag. If your partner isn’t willing to make your relationship public to his friends, alarm bells should start ringing!
They won’t put a label on it
You would call yourself boyfriend and girlfriend, but he still can’t say the words. This is a clear red flag that he has commitment problems and isn’t taking the relationship seriously.
They don’t give you any privacy
Overprotective and controlling behavior like demanding access to your messages and social media is one of the biggest warning signs of all. There’s clearly no trust there!
They never apologize
Being able to apologize, even for the smallest of things, shows that your partner really cares for your feelings. So if you’ve never heard the word ‘sorry’ come out of their mouth, it’s be a bad sign…
Does he stay out late all the time with the guys, but make you feel bad if you hang out with your girlfriends? If so, get out of there fast!
They make you cross your boundaries
If your new partner is making you do things you feel uncomfortable with, whether it’s to do with sex or anything else, it’s a big indicator that they just don’t respect you.