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Reasons Why You Should NEVER Chase After A Guy

Feel like a guy you like is being hard to get? Are you constantly trying to get his attention? The idea of ‘the chase’ in dating can sound fun and exciting, but in reality, it’s exhausting and shows that he’s clearly not into you. Here’s why chasing after a guy is simply NOT a good idea...

You deserve better!

Ladies, it's time to quit wasting your time and energy chasing after a guy. The sooner you realise that it will never get you the man of your dreams, the better! Check out these 10 reasons why you need to STOP the chase...

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It’s bad for your self-esteem

Chasing after a guy who isn't noticing you makes you feel like you’re not good enough and is a major blow for your self-confidence!

It’s exhausting

The effort of texting, social media stalking and going round to his house is more tiring than you might think…

Be realistic

If you have to chase him, we’re sorry to say it, but it looks like he’s just not that into you!

It would never work out

Even if you did eventually ‘catch’ him, it’s unlikely that he’s the kind of guy that would be committed and it wouldn’t be a healthy relationship!

He’s clearly not worth it

Do you really want to be with a guy who keeps you on the chase and plays mind games anyway?

You’re setting yourself up for heartbreak

The more you chase him, the more you build up your feelings for him, making the rejection even more painful when it inevitably happens.

Missing out on something better

Whilst you’re chasing after a guy who’s clearly not The One, you could be missing out on other fun dating opportunities!

You lose sight of yourself

Obsessing over a guy and thinking about him 24/7 can mean that you forget about looking after yourself and having all important 'me time'.

There's more to life than dating!

As well as forgetting about yourself, chasing after a guy can mean that you forget about your family, friends and work side of your life. Take a step back and put everything into perspective!

It can affect your future relationships

You risk going go into future relationships thinking that all guys need to be chased. Well let us tell you ladies, a healthy relationship is based on mutual, not unrequited love!

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