10 Reasons Why You Should NEVER Chase After A GuyFeel like a guy you like is being hard to get? Are you constantly trying to get his attention? The idea of ‘the chase’ in dating can sound fun and exciting, but in reality, it’s exhausting and ultimately shows that he’s clearly not into you. Here are 10 obvious reasons why chasing after a guy is simply NOT a good idea...
Ladies, it's time to quit wasting your time and energy chasing after a guy. The sooner you realise that it will never get you the man of your dreams, the better! Check out these 10 reasons why you need to STOP the chase and simply move on with your head held high.
10 Reasons to avoid chasing the person you like
Love is a confusing emotion and can at times make us do things that are typically out of character for us otherwise. When we see someone we are attracted to and feel a spark with, our natural instinct is to try to get to know them more. But, what if you were going out of your way for a lost cause?
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1) It’s bad for your self-esteem
Chasing after a guy who isn't noticing you makes you feel like you’re not good enough and is a major blow for your self-confidence!
2) It’s exhausting
The effort of texting, social media stalking and going round to his house is more tiring than you might think…
3) Be realistic
If you have to chase him, we’re sorry to say it, but it looks like he’s just not that into you!
4) It would never work out
Even if you did eventually ‘catch’ him, it’s unlikely that he’s the kind of guy that would be committed and it wouldn’t be a healthy relationship!
5) He’s clearly not worth it
Do you really want to be with a guy who keeps you on the chase and plays mind games anyway?
6) You’re setting yourself up for heartbreak
The more you chase him, the more you build up your feelings for him, making the rejection even more painful when it inevitably happens.
7) Missing out on something better
Whilst you’re chasing after a guy who’s clearly not The One, you could be missing out on other fun dating opportunities!
8) You lose sight of yourself
Obsessing over a guy and thinking about him 24/7 can mean that you forget about looking after yourself and having all important 'me time'.
9) There's more to life than dating!
As well as forgetting about yourself, chasing after a guy can mean that you forget about your family, friends and work side of your life. Take a step back and put everything into perspective!
10) It can affect your future relationships
You risk going go into future relationships thinking that all guys need to be chased. Well let us tell you ladies, a healthy relationship is based on mutual, not unrequited love!