Our Relationship Expert Reveals The Secret To Finding Love!Are you dreaming of finding love but nothing’s happening? Don’t lose hope, this could be because you aren’t in the right frame of mind to attract potential suitors. Our mediums offer their tips and tricks to help you turn things around and find love NOW!
Sometimes something as simple as changing your attitude will help you find that special someone! Our mediums, who specialize in love and romance, are here to share their little secrets. After reading this aticle, you’ll have everything you need to get out there and find your soulmate!
We put the following questions to our head medium Susan and this is what she advised... You're welcome!
Is it true love or passion?
Passionate love can have identical characteristics as true love can, and the two are easily confused. Mixed types signals and intensive pleasure makes the conquest of true love challenging. Passion is a temporary feeling of complete ecstasy, which means it won't last forever, whereas true love is much deeper than passion and is based on common values, respect and honesty.
Where should I look for love?
The best solution is to find a lover, is to look for someone who likes you. Why? Because, you need someone who shares your interests, sees your qualities, and recognizes your sense of humor. He or she should notice when you act differently: you won’t need to do anything too theatrical because this person can tell what’s going on, as they know you so well. Be impulsive, honest, and don’t have expectations or secret agendas… Listen and don’t be afraid of silence. The person who loves you, knows you. He or she feels comfortable being with you. Maybe this situation needs time to develop, too. Take the time to meet up with each other and feel the chemistry between you two and let it develop.
Be confident! This is always attractive! Your energy gives out the message of happiness, self-esteem, and self-confidence. Smile! Everyone loves a smile. It goes a long way and invites people to talk to you. Positivity! There is nothing more off-putting than a negative person on a first date. Do not be needy! This comes across as desperate and will immediately set off alarms! Have fun! Be yourself and let your personality shine through! Try to be honest with yourself and the other person about what you want within a relationship. Follow your intuition and don’t allow other people’s opinions get in the way of your partnership. Take facts on board, but leave rumors aside.
I want true love, how can I find it?
Emily Dickinson once wrote “The soul should always stand ajar, ready to welcome the ecstatic experience.” Being open to true love means that, even though you’re looking for that special one, you need to remain alert and receptive to love no matter where it comes from. The ‘right’ person might show up in a way you never expected and look different to what you might’ve imagined. Be honest and straightforward! The key is to be natural and to be yourself! Speak from your heart. If you aren’t comfortable when you’re relaxing with a potential partner, then he/she is not the right person. Don’t waste any more time, or you may become entangled in a romance that you’ll later regret.
Am I ready to love?
Before you are able to love someone else, you need to love yourself!
The reason why so many people complain that they can’t seem to find that special one is because they don’t love themselves enough to make someone fall for them. These are the typical signs:
- Are you in a relationship but wonder if your boyfriend is loyal and honest?
- Are you single but keep coming up empty when you decide to change your relationships status?
- Do you have emotional baggage that hasn’t been sorted out?
If you do find yourself in one of the above categories, you have to look inside and try to understand what’s preventing you from shining spontaneously. We all have a shining star, it’s ours and it’s there, so where’s yours? No, no one stole it, so can you find it?
Start looking for it, put it back in place, allow it to shine, and you’ll feel so much more confident. Learn to love yourself, look at yourself every day, understand your body language, what you’re expressing to the universe, etc. What are you telling everyone? If you think you should change, move towards the direction you want little by little every day, think and visualize what you really want and you'll eventually get it!