How to Unearth Your Inner ChildCarefree with a head full of dreams, childhood is often the best period of our lives! When we grow up, life jostles us and makes us conscious of the weight of our decisions. The ability to gush over something and believe in our dreams is an astonishing driving force, so we’ve written about how to find your inner child according to your astrological sign.
No, no, no… finding your inner child doesn’t mean you’re moving backwards. Actually, it’s nothing but the opposite. This symbolizes rediscovering your joie de vivre, your enthusiasm, believing in your dreams, and, if you’re an adult…making the effort to ensure your dreams come true! Innocence and childhood joys, but without the naivety than can come with, can help us move forward more peacefully in life.
“Under the thick coating of our actions, our demure inner child remains unchanged; this inner child escapes from time to time.” François Mauriac
Maturity and wisdom are necessary qualities in our development. We’re not telling you to transform into an immature teenager for the rest of your life, but adding a hint of innocence and childhood to your life can help you see your existence in other ways, as well as considering life in a much more positive way.
By finding your inner child, you’ll rediscover what’s really important in your eyes and stop polluting your mind with daily worries that aren’t worth the trouble…
This equilibrium will be based on a nice dose of both maturity and a childlike vision.
Good reasons to keep your inner child alive
“When I grow up, I want to be an astronaut or a vet.”
Remember when you were young and were full of dreams for the life ahead of you? But now you’ve grown up and you’ve noticed that life isn’t as simple and not everything is possible, by keeping your inner child alive, you’ll be able to see things in a new way.
Social constraint can pin you down so you don’t dare to ask yourself the right questions or start up any ambitious projects, by re-establishing your inner child, you’ll rediscover a little frivolity and naivety which will help you avoid numerous other disappointments.
So, how do you rediscover this inner child?
Click on your sign and discover how to find this childlike innocence and spontaneity again!
Aries, you are too impulsive, you’ve definitely done things that you regret and, because of this, you’re careful when gaining momentum. Don’t brush off your true nature, tame it. This is your only way of living in perfect harmony with yourself. Follow your instinct for conquests and throw yourself into new challenges, but only count on yourself this time. Go on, be confident!
Emotional disappointments have made a dent in your innocence, and you’ve thrown your inner child to the dogs so you don’t suffer anymore. Love occupies a main space in your life, and it’s impossible to think of how to move ahead without it. Your thirst for love and affection puts you back on track. Cupid is prompting you to believe, forgive and forget your past mistakes and those who have hurt you. This is the indispensable condition to rediscover your childlike view.
To rediscover your childlike casualness, you must confront yourself about your past experiences and analyze your errors. Time has the tendency to embellish things… Be lucid and hard with yourself, analyze facts fairly, and don’t let yourself be overwhelmed by frustration. If you have any suppressed desires or fears, let them go.
Your inner child is always present, whether it’s trials you’ve come across, you have protected it jealously. You are very attached to your childhood and are clearly the most childlike of the zodiac! Hold on to your daydreaming and sensitive side because people love you for that! Continue to explore your childlike side by letting yourself flow freely through life. Shake up your daily life whenever you need to!
The rediscovery of your inner child entails a return of emotions. You are well on the way to reaching your personal and professional goals that you’ve sometimes forgotten your family and their feelings. Put things into perspective and, if you must, isolate yourself to think about what’s really vital in your life. By letting go and accepting your feelings and expressing them, you will rediscover your childlike personality.
You’re naturally anxious and are always scared of not being on par with others and disappointing your loved ones, so as a result, you devote body and soul to please everyone. Your devotion drives you to forget and sacrifice yourself. To rediscover your inner child, let go of everything. You are tidy, rigorous, and cautious, so run away from your obligations and find yourself in your true essence. Think of yourself for a change.
With you, it’s double or nothing: whether you’re too attached with what others think and that keeps you from asserting who you are, or you’re in a confrontation and, systematically, are in rebellion against the establish rules. In both cases, you’ll find yourself in a delicate situation and are bound for some failure because you’re running straight towards a wall. To move forward, you must find the happy medium within your actions.
You’d love to rediscover this childlike being but you tend to remain armed just in case of new, hard blows are served. You’ve built up a wall around you and, because you are passionate and extreme, you defend yourself from everything, including people who love you and would like to be closer with you. Lower your guard in order to rediscover a childlike spontaneity. You relationships will improve.
You are enthusiastic, optimistic, hearty, and a little bit ingenuous and have the tendency to harbor illusions because appearances are sometimes deceiving and you’ve learned to depend on yourself. Some disappointments have driven you to calm down your enthusiasm and instinctive side. So, rediscovering your confidence in the human species is essential, and when you’ve managed to sort through your contacts with lucidity, your childlike soul will come back in full force.
You internalize your emotions and life events did not help you. With time, you’ve become withdrawn in order to protect yourself better. You need a good dose of optimism to move forward. To rediscover your inner child, surround yourself with happy people and find someone you can express your emotions to. You need a way to let it all out!
Original and non-conforming, you’re on the hunt for your independence and you aspire to detach yourself from your environment and principles that you’ve instilled. You are also extroverted and have a need to communicate with other people. You always go too far, so stop trying to provoke everyone or simply ignore them. Step away from the crowd to find out who you really are.
You’re the most sensitive out of the zodiacs and are a true emotional sponge, subject to intense emotional tumult. To rediscover your inner child, you should tackle past events that have deeply hurt you. This is the only way to make sure that negative situations don’t repeat themselves and come back to haunt you…