Here's How To Communicate Better With Your PartnerA romantic relationship blossoms when communication is strong because it’s the key to a successful relationship. Unfortunately, it’s not always easy to find the right tone or the correct way to openly discuss things with the person you love. Discover the secret to better and more fluid communication with your partner thanks to their astrological sign.
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To strengthen your relationship, your bond, or even fill a void, clear communication is essential. Communication is the bedrock to any strong relationship, so check out how you can improve yours and your partners, based on their zodiac sign.
The secret to great communication if you partner is...
Aries has a frank and direct nature, so they appreciate it when you address anything with a head-on attitude, without digression and in no particular fashion. Make them believe that they’ll have the last word (even if it isn’t always true). If you have to resolve an issue, let them suggest solutions first and slowly eliminate those that don’t please you until you reach a compromise.
The secret: Try to be as frank and direct as possible, taking care not to repeat your past mistakes as an Aries has an excellent memory…
Careful with a Taurus, they have a reputation for being the most stubborn among the zodiacs… Getting a Taurus to open up, is an art in itself! Arm yourself with patience, don’t put them under stress, and avoid power struggles. Don’t accuse them of unfounded facts and don’t bring up past faults because that will bring your conversation to an immediate close.
The secret: Try to express your emotions and opinions in a positive way, and be sure of yourself.
Keep it light-
Even if a Gemini is very communicative, they can shut down once it comes to face-to-face conversations. Ask them lots of questions and let them decide what they’d like to talk about. Geminis have a tendency to drift off and get bored easily, so ask your Gemini to listen to you attentively. Consider adding some humor to your conversation because, without any humor, you’re going to lose their attention…
The secret: Adopt a flexible and open attitude. Surroundings are important! Find an entertaining place that's busy, and why not add a little music? A bar would be ideal for talking to a Gemini.
Find a common bond-
Cancer is a sweet person, so talk to them in a soft and understanding voice. Communication should be based on common interests and on everything that can bring you together, instead of things that pull you apart. If you’re too direct or aggressive, Cancer will immediately withdraw back into their shell.
The secret: Give Cancer time to reflect and don’t ask them for an immediate response (they don’t like to be rushed).
Don't play on their emotions-
Take care of Leo’s super-sensitive ego. In order start a discussion in the best way possible, compliment them or talk about their qualities before approaching any faults… Talk to them in a friendly and clear way, and present solid arguments that aren’t too sentimental or contradictory because otherwise they won’t take you seriously. In no case should you show Leo what your weaknesses are.
The secret: Leos don’t like anyone who plays the victim, they hate public domestic quarrels, and they’re scared of ridicule. Adopt a positive and confident attitude!
For everything to go well with a Virgo, listen to them attentively and empathetically. Don’t judge a Virgo because this is the only way that they'll unwind and feel at ease. With a Virgo, soppiness isn’t necessary and arguments you get into must be concrete and objective. You should show them that your point of view is useful.
The secret: Virgos are very demanding of themselves as they are others, so don’t take their criticism as something bad or let it stand between you two. Make sure that this criticism doesn’t get under your skin since a Virgo will never leave on bad terms.
Keep a check on your defensiveness-
Don’t rush a Libra because aggressive attitudes send them running. Don’t ask them to make a decision right away. Instead, give a Libra a lot of options and they’ll choose the best option for you two. Don’t forget that they’re always trying to be fair and make everyone happy, and Libra will try to put themselves in your shoes.
The secret: They can't stand aggressiveness, so it’d be impossible to have conversations in a tense atmosphere.
Tell it how it is-
Don’t hide anything from a Scorpio because they’re very intuitive, and they’ll work out what you’re doing without you saying a word… Don’t play this game with them. To get your point across, it’s better to suggest than try to impose your opinion (making a suggestion will be more efficient). A Scorpio won’t tell you everything they’re thinking about, but will say the most when you were expecting the least!
The secret: Don’t forget that a Scorpio is a passionate person, and if the subject you need to talk about is awkward, avoid public places because Scorpio may lose their temper…
Present your discussion as a possibility of reaching an agreement and improving your relationship because a Sagittarius needs to see the positive side of things. Remain subtle, smile, and laugh often to soften your words: this is what Sagittarius will need. If you get as far as holding an optimistic, cheerful, and sincere conversation, all will go well…
The secret: Do not back a Sagittarius into a corner whatever you do because you’ll never come to an agreement.
It’s not always easy to know what a Capricorn is thinking, so it can be difficult to communicate with them. Keep in the back of your mind that, behind Capricorn’s cold appearance, there’s a tender and affectionate person. Don’t be bothered by their cold attitude… Prepare yourself with patience and address yourself to them in a frank, but soft, way.
The secret: You can disarm a Capricorn by showing them that they're important in your life. Prepare for your discussions because Capricorn isn’t the type to go into anything unprepared, and you could quickly lose ground…
Be extremely frank whenever you address an Aquarius. Let them unravel any ideas and don’t interrupt. Don’t be so conservative, and open up to new ideas! Don’t place yourself in a superior position or the debate will quickly come to a close.
The secret: Take them to an intimate place to establish some good communication and rediscover your bond.
Think before you speak-
Talk to a Pisces gently and affectionately, or they will become withdrawn very quickly. Choose your words with care because Pisces is a delicate type… If you want to convince a Pisces, appeal to their feelings, especially to their reason. Be careful if a Pisces feels trapped because they’re likely to blow up and be very melodramatic.
The secret: Choose a calm and fanciful place, like a romantic dinner, which will help everything go over well.